elcome to My Plug Life. For many years, I was thinking if I should create a blog for this Lifestyle. There are so many factors, like family, work and overall mental health when it comes to build something like this. However, after many years of procrastination, I finally decided I will share my knowledge about this Lifestyle, hoping I can help and inspire others to open up and live as you feel comfortable.
For more than 40 years, I played with my Butt. To this day, I still enjoy it as I did on my first day. Did it change me? No, I am still the same person I have ever been!
Don’t be afraid of using your Butt other than going to the bathroom to poop. Your Butt has so many nerves around the anus that playing with your Butt will bring pure pleasure!
I stumbled into anal play at a somewhat young age. One night, when I was 13 years old, I laid in my bed and started to have “teenage thoughts” I guess. However, being alone in my room, you start what any teenager does. Now, I grew up very conservative in a Christian family, going to church every Sunday. I knew it was “wrong” doing so (At least that is what I was told), so I explored other options.
These options included a pen, putting in my ass. At that moment I knew that this is nice and I thought, “Well, I am not doing anything I shouldn’t”;-) However, nobody in my school was talking about these things besides one friend of mine. He had a similar situation and the both of us explored together at times. Nevertheless, it was all very secretive and taboo and during that time, being gay was not really an option.
The strangest thing was and still is, I am not gay, nor straight nor anything. I am still attracted to the female body but have no problem to be with a person who also has a penis. I don’t know where in the LGBTQ identity I would stand, and I do not really care. I am me, and that’s it. Nobody should feel the need to put themselves into a category, so I never did.
ver the years, I tried many things, just to confirm that I am indeed "special" in my own right. I feel comfortable with anybody and do not judge at all. I know what it means to grow up, feeling different than the others, but fitting in just fine. To me, every human being is a positive person, however, the environment is changing there behaviors. Nobody grows up, wanting to hurt somebody or steal something or be put away, it's the environment that creates these issues. I am happy in a way, because with 18 years of age, I had some very bad things happening to me and I had to decide if I want to live or end it right there. I chose life and that night made me strong and with strong, I mean mentally strong, so nothing can bring me down!
This blog should help you to be who you are and that you do not have to write it on the walls. There is no need to tell everybody that you are gay or whatever. You chose how the environment sees you. Do you want to be seen as gay or trans or…? Is it necessary to show? What are your goals in life? Is your lifestyle in the way to reach those goals?
Being different makes this whole journey very complex and complicated and often you wish to “just be normal”. But that is not how this works. I am sure that during the evolution, many people just knew they are born as male or female and that is what they are. If they didn’t feel right, it was just overlooked. Today, we can be free and chose our own destiny, however, it does not have to be in the face of everybody as that might bring you in more trouble than anything. You have to find a middle ground, so you are still comfortable with who you are and the people around you…..at least that is my opinion.
- Be strong and be who you are
- Nobody can tell you who you should be
- Live your live but be respectful to others
In this Blog, I want to dive deeper into the spice, pleasure, problems, the possibilities, the perception and the many facets this lifestyle has to offer. I want to show what fun it can be and how to live it in a way that you can be free but not make you or people around you uncomfortable.
Live your life, Joe
